Today will undoubtedly be a full day . . in more ways than one. For all the preparation, we often still find ourselves caught off guard.
By life.
In all her beauty. And her mess.
Somehow we imagine she wasn't invited to this feast. Or at least got the memo to dress her best and behave.
Highly recommended, should be required, reading in preparation for this day.
And life.
I have often told my kids the best thing to do with family is love them. I need to remind myself of this constantly, but especially around the holidays.
The holidays are an interesting mix of anticipation and disappointment.
Joy and sorrow.
Laughter and stress.
This beautiful tender ache.
Our souls hurt and flourish in the being of this place and all its mortals. Friends, sisters, mothers, brothers, fathers, and all of these.