Thirty Days of Thanks: Day 14~Gratitude?

I'm thrilled to introduce you to Olivia Fulmer who blogs at One Word. She's no light-weight when it comes to giving thanks. You'll know what I mean when you read her story! 

November 2011. The Fellowship Circle sat around the table in the fellowship hall at church. I had not been to a meeting in a while. My family had been living with my parents since June 10, 2011, after we lost everything (again) to a house fire. But I had signed up to be the program leader for the November meeting, and I had to be there. At the end of the program, Pat looked up at me, and said, “I don’t know how you could do that. After all you have been through, how can you talk about gratitude?”
How could I not talk about gratitude? I was alive. I was healing. True, I had lost everything (again). Our finances were in shambles after trying to restore and replace the necessities. We were still trying to sort everything out with the insurance company and still praying over whether to pursue a legal case to receive restitution (we did not go to court). I did not want to live through the experience any more than I had to. I woke up many nights shivering with fear, my right arm burning with (imaginary?) pain where the new skin was slowing but surely taking hold and covering the 4% that had sustained second and third degree burns. 
How can I talk about gratitude? I can because even in the depths of that horrific experience of being taken to a local trauma center and not knowing what happened to the house, of lying in that ER with my mother standing beside me and shaking her head when I asked, “it’s gone”—in the midst of all that—there was gratitude to be found, albeit later.
Paul tells the early Christians repeatedly that we should give thanks in ALL circumstances. Thank goodness, he doesn’t tell us that we have to give thanks for the circumstances.
While preparing for my program that November night, I came across the story of the hymn, “Now Thank We All Our God.” A Lutheran minister in Germany during the plague years ministered to his congregation faithfully. During that time, though, he lost his beloved wife to that plague. Yet he continued to minister. And he wrote just days after her death and burial in a mass grave the words that we too often reserve just for Thanksgiving services:
Now thank we all our God,
With hearts and hands and voices.
Who wondrous things hath done,
In whom this world rejoices.
Let me tell you just a few things that today, two years later, that I am grateful for after this experience:
Oh, yes, Pat, I can talk about gratitude and feel gratitude in spite of the circumstances. I realize how very blessed I am.
All is grace. All is worship. All is thanksgiving.

Thank you for sharing your story, Olivia! Your real life example of giving thanks in all circumstances is inspiring and challenging. 

Have you given thanks in difficult circumstances? How did it change your perspective? 

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"Oh, give thanks to the Lord, for He is good, 
for His steadfast love endures forever!" 
~Psalm 107:1


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